Depression: Resources, Treatment, Symptoms, and More - Talkspace https://www.talkspace.com/blog/category/depression/ Therapy For How We Live Today Fri, 04 Apr 2025 21:17:14 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2021/10/favicon.png Depression: Resources, Treatment, Symptoms, and More - Talkspace https://www.talkspace.com/blog/category/depression/ 32 32 Should You Transfer Colleges if You’re Depressed? https://www.talkspace.com/blog/should-i-transfer-colleges-if-im-depressed/ Fri, 04 Apr 2025 21:17:12 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=35674 You wake up exhausted, dragging yourself to class or not going at all, wondering how you’re going to…

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You wake up exhausted, dragging yourself to class or not going at all, wondering how you’re going to make it through another day. College was supposed to be the best time of your life, right? But instead, it feels like a never-ending cycle of stress, isolation, and overwhelming sadness. If you’re feeling depressed in college, you might be asking yourself: should I transfer colleges if I’m extremely depressed, or is there another way to get through this?

Transferring may seem like an escape, but will it truly solve the problem? Unfortunately, there’s no easy answer, but there are ways to figure it out. In this article, we’ll explore whether a new school is the right move to manage depression — or if there are steps you can take to improve your mental health right where you are.

Understanding Depression in College

If you’re feeling lost in the whirlwind of college life, you’re not the only one. The transition from high school to college is about more than picking classes and decorating dorm rooms — it’s a major life shift that can shake your mental health. Between academic pressure, social expectations, and newfound independence, it’s understandable to feel overwhelmed.

The challenges of mental health in college

The college environment can intensify mental health struggles that were present already or introduce new stressors that make them more likely to appear for the first time. Stress from coursework, social pressures, financial worries, and major life transitions can all contribute to feelings of anxiety and depression. According to a survey conducted by the American College Health Association, more than 1 in 3 college students sought out mental health care services during the 2021-2022 school year. 

Some common stressors that can exacerbate or increase the risk of depression in college include:

  • Academic pressure or fear of failure
  • Social isolation or difficulty making friends
  • Financial strain and work-study balance
  • Being far from home and lacking a support system
  • Changes in diet, sleep, and routine

Signs that depression may be affecting your college experience

If you think depression in college might be making it harder for you to thrive, it’s important to be able to recognize the signs and symptoms of depression. Do any of these feel familiar?

  • Persistent sadness or hopelessness
  • Loss of interest in classes, social activities, or hobbies
  • Difficulty concentrating or completing assignments
  • Withdrawing from friends, family, or social events
  • Changes in sleep patterns (sleeping more or less than usual)
  • Unhealthy eating habits or significant weight changes
  • Feeling extremely overwhelmed or unmotivated to attend classes
  • Experiencing frequent anxiety or panic attacks

If one or more of these symptoms are making it harder to function on a daily basis, there are resources and strategies that can help treat depression. Before making any major decisions, take a step back and explore what support systems are available — whether that means reaching out to a counselor at school, confiding in a trusted friend, or making small adjustments to your routine.

What to Consider Before Transferring

Deciding whether to transfer schools is a big decision and there’s a lot to consider before making a final choice. Sometimes, a fresh start can be beneficial, but other times, the challenges you’re facing might follow you wherever you go.

Think about what’s driving your desire to transfer. Are you struggling with academic stress, feeling isolated, or a lack of support? Or do you feel like your college itself — the culture, the location, or the resources available — is making your depression worse? Answering these questions honestly can help guide you toward the best decision for your well-being.

Assessing the root cause of your struggles

First, take a step back and evaluate whether your depression is tied specifically to your college environment or if it might persist regardless of where you are. Ask yourself:

  • Are there specific factors at this school that are worsening my mental health?
  • Have I tried seeking support through campus resources?
  • Would I feel better in a different academic or social setting?

“Before transferring to another college, reflect on the factors that may be influencing your depressed mood. Seek help from a professional therapist who can guide you in the exploration of the causes of the depression that is affecting your academic success.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

If you think your depression is linked to academic stress, social isolation, or other factors likely to exist at another school, transferring may not be the right solution. However, if the environment itself — such as a toxic social atmosphere or lack of mental health resources — is a contributing factor, a change might be worth considering.

How transferring might impact your mental health

While transferring colleges might seem like a fresh start, it’s important to keep in mind the challenges it can bring, too. Adjusting to a new campus, making new friends, and navigating different academic expectations can be a lot to handle on top of dealing with depression in college. Some important considerations include:

  • Will I feel more isolated starting over in a new place?
  • How will transferring affect my graduation timeline and academic progress?
  • Will I have access to better mental health resources or be closer to my support system at the new school?

The emotional toll of starting over

Starting over at a new college can feel like both an opportunity and a heavy burden. Right now, you might be hoping that a new environment will make things easier, but there’s also the fear of losing what little stability you have. Leaving behind familiar faces, routines, and even professors who know your story can be difficult. 

If you’re struggling with depression in college, the uncertainty of transferring might amplify feelings of isolation and self-doubt. Will things actually be better at the new school, or will the same challenges follow you? These are tough questions, and it’s okay if you don’t have all the answers right now. The key is making sure that your next step isn’t just about escaping, but about moving toward a place that truly supports your well-being.

Alternative Options to Consider Before Transferring

No matter what you’re going through, transferring isn’t the only option. Before deciding to transfer, it’s worth exploring mental health tips for college students that can help improve your well-being without starting over at a new school. Small adjustments—like seeking counseling, modifying your academic workload, and building a support system—can make a big difference. Many colleges have accommodations and resources in place to assist students with mental health challenges, and using them can help improve your situation without the stress of starting over elsewhere. 

Seeking counseling and support services

Many colleges offer mental health resources, including counseling centers, therapy sessions, and support groups, often at little to no cost to students. If you haven’t already, consider reaching out to college mental health services to explore therapy for depression before making a decision on transferring.

Academic adjustments and extensions

If coursework feels overwhelming, academic accommodations can help lighten the load while you prioritize your mental health. Reach out to your advisors and professors to ask about extending deadlines or reducing your course load. If you receive pushback or don’t know where to start, reach out to your school’s disability services departments — they can point you in the right direction and advocate on your behalf.

Social support and building connections

Feeling lonely in college can make everything harder. Even if socializing feels exhausting right now, finding a sense of connection — no matter how small — can make a huge difference. Look for low-pressure ways to engage with your peers, like attending one social event per week or reaching out to a classmate for a study session. If in-person interactions feel overwhelming, online communities or peer support groups through your school might feel less daunting.

“To build a support network students could reach out to other students to start conversations and make new connections, or join student organizations, social clubs, and volunteer groups. There are also many community support groups that can be helpful for students who are feeling isolated.”

Talkspace therapist Dr. Olga Molina, D.S.W., LCSW

Taking a leave of absence

Sometimes, the best thing you can do for yourself is to take a step back. If depression in college is making it impossible to keep up, taking a mental health leave of absence might give you the space to focus on healing without the pressure of academic deadlines. Many colleges allow students to take time off and return when they’re well. 

If you take time off and still don’t feel better, that’s okay — transferring to a different school is still an option. A leave of absence can still help you heal and give you time to consider all your options before deciding whether or not to permanently transfer.

When Transferring May Be the Right Choice

Sometimes, despite your best efforts, your current college just isn’t the right fit. Maybe you picked your school based on prestige, and now you realize it doesn’t align with your needs. Or maybe you thought going somewhere far from home would be an exciting adventure, but now you crave the familiarity and support of being closer to family. Transferring might also be the right move if:

  • The school is more expensive than you thought, and the student loans are going to be a burden after you graduate
  • The academic environment isn’t meeting your needs or is adding unnecessary stress
  • The campus culture feels toxic or poorly suited to your needs
  • Your college lacks adequate mental health resources to support you

Get the Help You Need First

Before making any drastic decisions, take a moment to check in with yourself. Have you explored all your options? Have you reached out for support? Making an informed decision about transferring starts with prioritizing your mental health. 

Talking to a therapist can help you determine whether transferring is the right move. Talkspace offers online therapy designed for students, making it easy to get professional support without adding more stress to your schedule. Online therapy with Talkspace can provide you with a convenient and accessible way to help process your emotions and thoughts about your current situation.

No matter what you decide, you deserve a college experience where you can thrive — not just academically, but emotionally, too. 

Sources:

  1. American College Health Association-National College Health Assessment III: Reference Group. Executive Summary Fall 2022. Silver Spring, MD: American College Health Association; 2023. https://www.acha.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/07/NCHA-III_FALL_2022_REFERENCE_GROUP_EXECUTIVE_SUMMARY.pdf

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Caregiver Depression: Recognizing Signs & Finding Support https://www.talkspace.com/blog/caregiver-depression/ Tue, 22 Oct 2024 16:13:41 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=34191 Caregiver depression is a concern for anyone who provides long-term care for someone else. Whether it’s your profession…

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Caregiver depression is a concern for anyone who provides long-term care for someone else. Whether it’s your profession or you’re caring for an aging parent, child with special needs, or partner with a chronic illness, depression and caregiving often go hand-in-hand as a result of the overwhelming emotional, mental, and physical demands the job requires. Research suggests up to 20% of caregivers experience some form of depression. 

Caretakers may experience a profound sense of isolation, sadness, hopelessness, and even guilt. The relentless task can make it challenging to maintain healthy social connections or find time for self-care, which are essential for maintaining caregiver health.

Recognizing and knowing how to address caretaker depression is crucial. If you don’t deal with it, it can affect your quality of life and the level of care you’re able to provide. Read on to learn about symptoms, causes, and tips for managing caregiver depression.

Symptoms of Caregiver Depression

Symptoms of caregiver depression can manifest in multiple ways. While they can overlap with signs of general depression, the unique stress and emotional weight of caregiving tend to compound them. Like all types of depression, being able to recognize symptoms early offers the best chance for recovery.

Symptoms of caretaker depression include:

  • Persistent feelings of sadness or hopelessness
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in things you once enjoyed
  • Caregiver fatigue and exhaustion
  • Changes in sleep patterns
  • Changes in weight or appetite
  • Difficulty concentrating
  • Feelings of guilt
  • Feelings of worthlessness
  • Increased irritability or anger
  • Physical symptoms, like unexplained aches, pains, headaches, or digestive issues — typically with no cause
  • Social withdrawal

What Causes Depression in Caregivers?

Caregiver depression can come from a combination of factors. There’s the heavy weight of being responsible for the constant care of someone else, but there are other culprits to consider, too. Understanding the potential causes is essential to overcoming them. 

Emotional stress

Caregiving takes an emotional toll on most people. You’re worried about someone’s health, have uncertainty about the future, and must deal with the emotional pain of watching someone suffer. The pressure of needing to be constantly available, combined with the fear of making a mistake or missing something, can cause chronic stress — a significant risk factor for depression.

“Caring for a loved one can be physically and emotionally demanding, and without the proper support in place can lead to emotional burnout and/or depression. Being able to provide physical and emotional care for a loved one takes a toll as it can be physically challenging and emotionally depleting as one copes with the changes in your loved one’s condition. Knowing when to ask for help is crucial, whether through respite care, a support group, or speaking with a licensed mental health professional so that you can have a space to safely discuss your concerns.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

Physical exhaustion

Caretaking is physically demanding. You’re responsible for daily activities — like getting dressed, meeting nutritional needs, and maintaining personal hygiene — and you also likely make and go to medical appointments and provide other physical support that can leave you feeling drained. The physical exertion that comes with caregiving duties, often without adequate rest, can lead to caregiver fatigue and make you more vulnerable to depression.

Social isolation

Caregiving consumes so much time and energy that you might withdraw from social activities or outside connections. The isolation so many caregivers feel leads to loneliness, yet another trigger for depression. Not having enough — or any — social support can exacerbate emotional and mental stress and make it harder to cope.

Burnout 

The relentless demands of caring for a loved one can lead to intense caregiver stress, which over time, contributes to emotional exhaustion and pervasive negative thoughts. When family caregivers are unable to manage this stress, they may experience caregiver burnout.

Financial strain

Being a caregiver can be financially taxing, especially if you can’t work the hours you once did or you need to leave your job entirely. There are often costs associated with medical care, specialized equipment, or other expenses that cause financial strain. The added pressure of worrying about money may further contribute to depressive symptoms.

How Does Diagnosis Work?

To diagnose any type of depression, you need to get a comprehensive evaluation from a trained professional. You can start with your primary care physician, or you can find a therapist. 

Diagnosing depression involves several key steps to rule out other potential or comorbid conditions.

The process for diagnosing caregiver depression generally includes the following:

  • Getting a clinical assessment
  • Going through a symptom checklist or standardized screening questionnaire
  • Reviewing medical and family history 
  • Getting a physical exam
  • Having a mental health evaluation
  • Exploring differential diagnoses
  • Seeking ongoing monitoring

“While depression can look different in each person, in a caregiver it is especially important to assess depression as the physical and emotional toll of caregiving often goes unacknowledged. Being able to openly discuss the impact on the caregiver and not assume changes they are experiencing simply come with the territory of being a caregiver. Some examples include changes in appetite, sleep, mood, feelings of agitation, loss of interest in activities, and/or physical ailments.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

Tips for Managing Depression as a Caregiver

Although it can be challenging, you can learn to balance depression and caregiving. It’s easier when you know about effective self-care strategies, support, and other coping tools. 

Tips to help you cope with depression from caregiving can include:

  • Using self-care: It’s important to make time for activities, people, and things you enjoy. Self-care for caregivers can be as simple as reading, going for a walk, or planning a night off to meet up with friends. If you don’t have help or support, respite care services can step in so you can take much-needed and critical time off to maintain your mental well-being.
  • Seeking professional help: Don’t hesitate to work with a mental health professional who can offer you guidance and coping tools through therapy for depression.
  • Finding a support network: Connecting with friends, family, or support groups lets you share some of the pain you’re going through. Having a network of people who understand can reduce feelings of isolation and offer you emotional relief.
  • Being realistic with your expectations: Remind yourself that you can’t possibly do everything perfectly. Set realistic and achievable goals, and try to accept that it’s OK if you need help or have to delegate responsibilities from time to time.
  • Practicing mindfulness and other relaxation techniques: Mindfulness practices — like meditation or deep breathing exercises — are proven to reduce stress and anxiety. According to research, mindfulness can be as effective as medication in treating depression in some people. Incorporating relaxation techniques into your daily routine will help you manage depression and maintain mental clarity so you can be more effective in your role as a caregiver.
  • Creating a routine: Routines provide stability and predictability in everyone’s life. They can also help you manage your time and reduce chaos that might be contributing to feeling depressed. 
  • Staying active: Regular exercise is crucial to maintaining a positive mood and healthy energy levels. Activities like yoga, walking, or light stretching can significantly improve your tolerance and reduce daily stress.
  • Prioritizing sleep and a healthy diet: Eating well and getting enough sleep does wonders for managing depression. You’d be surprised how much of a difference nourishing your mind and body can make. 

Find Professional Support for Caregiver Depression

Overcoming caregiver depression is possible, but it can help to seek professional support. It’s normal to be nervous or hesitant about reaching out for help, but it’s a sign of strength and can be a positive step toward recovery.

Talkspace offers a unique and accessible way to seek therapy, especially if the demands of your role limit your time and ability to get away. Online therapy gives you access to licensed mental healthcare professionals so you can get help when, where, and how you need it.  

Take the first step toward getting help with your depression so you can provide the best care possible to those who need you. Start your journey toward managing caretaker depression by getting online treatment for depression at Talkspace.

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Postpartum Psychosis vs. Postpartum Depression https://www.talkspace.com/blog/postpartum-depression-vs-psychosis/ Wed, 28 Jun 2023 15:02:05 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=30866 When distinguishing postpartum depression vs. postpartum psychosis, it’s important to know that they are both mental health conditions…

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When distinguishing postpartum depression vs. postpartum psychosis, it’s important to know that they are both mental health conditions that affect some women after giving birth. Postpartum depression (PPD) and postpartum psychosis (PPP) both involve mood changes, but they have different symptoms and require different treatments to manage the effects in the postpartum period.

The good news is both are highly treatable with online therapy and possibly medication when addressed early on. It’s essential to be aware of the differences between PPD and PPP so you can seek the right type of help as soon as possible. 

Continue reading to learn more about postpartum psychosis vs. depression, including what symptoms to look out for and how to treat each condition. 

What is the Difference Between Postpartum Depression & Psychosis?

Postpartum depression vs. psychosis are distinct mental health conditions that can affect mothers in the postpartum period.

  • Postpartum depression’s hallmark symptom is a prolonged sadness or emptiness, potentially coupled with difficulty sleeping, weariness, altered appetite, low self-esteem, anxiousness, and irritability. In addition, women with PPD often feel overwhelmed and unable to cope with their new motherhood responsibilities. PPD symptoms will last for longer than 2 weeks and can persist for up to a year after childbirth if left untreated.
  • In contrast, postpartum psychosis is much more severe and typically occurs within the first week or 2 after delivery. Symptoms include delusions or false beliefs, hallucinations, manic behavior such as excessive energy or talking rapidly, and more. PPP requires immediate medical attention, as it can be detrimental to the new mother and newborn if not addressed promptly.

It’s important to note that most women will fully recover from either condition with adequate and proper treatment. 

“The period with a newborn can be overwhelming. While the “baby blues” are common, postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis are more serious concerns. These conditions have nothing to do with how much you love your child, and remember you can get support and recover from each of these conditions.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

What is postpartum depression?

PPD is a serious form of clinical depression that research suggests might affect up to an estimated 20% of new mothers after childbirth. It’s the most common childbirth complication and can cause extreme psychological distress, including despair, apprehension, and exhaustion. 

PPD typically begins within the first 4 weeks after giving birth and can last for months or even years if left untreated. While it’s generally women who experience PPD, studies show that men can also be affected. 

Symptoms

Feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, listlessness, insomnia, mental fog, irritability, and appetite fluctuations are symptoms of PPD. Some women may also experience physical symptoms like headaches or digestive issues. Many women with PPD feel overwhelmed by their responsibilities as a new mother. As a result, they may struggle to bond with their new baby due to a lack of motivation or feeling emotionally disconnected. 

If you think you may be showing signs, take our postpartum depression test to learn more about your symptoms. It’s also highly recommended that you connect with a doctor or therapist to discuss what you’re experiencing.

Risk factors

Risk factors for PPD can include a prior history of depression, birth issues, being single or unmarried, living alone during childbirth, financial hardship, and inadequate social assistance. According to studies, one of the biggest risk factors for developing PPD is being depressed while you’re pregnant. 

What is postpartum psychosis?

Postpartum psychosis is a severe mental health condition that can occur after giving birth. Rarer than PPD, research shows that PPP affects an estimated 1 – 2 women out of every 1,000. 

Postpartum psychosis can manifest as extreme mood swings, confusion, disorientation, delusions, and hallucinations. PPD usually develops within the first couple weeks after delivery, but it can appear within the first year of your baby’s life.

Symptoms

The most common symptom of postpartum psychosis is an intense feeling of depression that might be accompanied by mania or hypomania (elevated mood). Other indications can be drastic changes in sleep habits (oversleeping or not getting enough rest), having problems focusing, experiencing racing intrusive thoughts, being overly excited, and fidgeting. 

In extreme cases, suicidal thoughts and behavior may accompany delusions or hallucinations like auditory and visual distortions, which can be very dangerous.

Risk factors

Risk factors that might increase the likelihood of postpartum psychosis can include: 

  • Having bipolar disorder or depression
  • Having prior episodes of baby blues
  • Being younger than 25 years old
  • Delivering multiple infants simultaneously
  • Going through complications in pregnancy, such as preeclampsia
  • Experiencing stressors before delivery, like financial issues or relationship difficulties
  • Family history of mental health conditions

Can PPD Turn into Psychosis?

A common question surrounding postpartum psychosis vs. depression is whether the milder version, postpartum depression, can ever turn into psychosis. In short, the answer is no. PPD will not turn into psychosis. That said, note that they can co-occur.

Most often, PPD resolves on its own, but it can last up to a year if left untreated. Postpartum psychosis typically requires medication and hospitalization to stabilize a mother’s mental state and ensure the safety of both mother and child until recovery begins. 

“It’s important to remember that postpartum depression cannot turn into postpartum psychosis, but both can occur simultaneously. Each of these conditions can be treated, and it is crucial to reach out to your healthcare provider and let them know what’s going on so you can get proper support and care. You do not have to struggle alone.”

Talkspace therapist Jill Daino, LCSW-R, BC-TMH

Treating Postpartum Psychosis vs. Postpartum Depression

Therapy and depression medication, including antidepressants and mood stabilizer medication, can be among the best ways to treat postpartum depression

Treatment for postpartum psychosis typically involves hospitalization with medications such as antipsychotics or mood stabilizer medication, supportive therapy from family members, and healthcare professionals specializing in maternal mental health issues.

Find Help for Postpartum Depression with Talkspace

Whether you’re experiencing postpartum depression vs. psychosis, seeking professional help is essential to ensure successful management. Talkspace is an online therapy platform designed to help women struggling with postpartum depression or any other condition find relief in the comfort and privacy of their own homes. 

Licensed Talkspace professionals offer women tailored attention using evidence-based methods like: 

Take the first step towards understanding postpartum depression and psychosis with our online depression treatment services. Our experienced professionals can offer the support, resources, and guidance you need to help you manage your mental health condition and journey as a mother.

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What to Do If You’re Feeling the Blues https://www.talkspace.com/blog/feeling-the-blues/ Thu, 02 Feb 2023 17:51:34 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=29480 Have you been feeling glum, unhappy, or out of sorts lately? Don’t worry – it’s normal to feel…

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Have you been feeling glum, unhappy, or out of sorts lately? Don’t worry – it’s normal to feel sad sometimes. When you’re down but don’t know why, it’s called feeling blue. 

It’s possible to feel blue without any obvious or apparent cause, but these low moods usually happen for a reason. While it can be challenging to cope with any sad feeling, thankfully, there are plenty of ways to deal with the blues. Read on to learn more about the blues and find ways to overcome them. 

What Do the Blues Feel Like?

A “blue feeling” is a common way we describe gloominess or sorrow. For example, someone feeling blue might say they feel “mopey” or “down in the dumps.” It’s common to cry more than usual or struggle with motivation when blue. 

Although people with the blues might describe themselves as depressed, the blues and depression actually aren’t the same thing. However, if you’ve been in a low mood for a while, and your feelings don’t seem to be going away, your sadness might be a symptom of depression. It’s important to understand the difference between the two. 

Feeling the blues vs depression

How can you tell the difference between a blue feeling and depression? When people feel blue, it’s usually for a reason. For example, someone might feel blue if they miss out on an opportunity, have a disagreement with someone they’re close to, or are unhappy with their life’s state. 

By contrast, while stressful events can trigger depression, people who are clinically depressed often feel unhappy even when their life is going well. 

If you’re blue, fun activities or spending time with friends might be an effective way to lift your spirits. Depression, however, can cause you to lose interest in things you once thoroughly enjoyed (a symptom commonly known as anhedonia). When you’re depressed, doing something fun might not change your mood at all. In fact, depression can make it hard to find the motivation to socialize or do anything in the first place. 

“Depression is stronger than feeling the blues. When depression is present, it’s more difficult, and sometimes nearly impossible, to stay motivated or complete our daily activities. Conversely, feeling the blues is more of a state of sadness, but we’re still able to perform our daily activities.”

Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, LCSW-S

Sadness is one of the more common symptoms of depression everyone knows about, but there are other symptoms, too. Additional depressive symptoms can include difficulty concentrating, fatigue, and thoughts of suicide. Symptoms of depression can be severe and have a significant impact on day-to-day functioning.

Knowing when to get professional help

A passing feeling of sadness isn’t necessarily a cause for concern. However, if those feelings don’t seem to fade, you may want to talk to a mental health professional for treatment. You should seek help if you’re having thoughts of self-harm or suicide or if your sadness interferes with your ability to carry out everyday responsibilities. For more help with identifying when you need help, learn the differences between sadness and depression.

Is Feeling the Blues Normal?

Unpleasant emotions are a normal part of life — everyone feels the blues at one point or another. Feeling blue isn’t unusual or abnormal, and a low mood isn’t necessarily bad. People typically feel blue for a reason, so figuring out why you’re feeling down could help you make positive changes.

There’s nothing strange about the blues, but that doesn’t mean you should wallow in your sadness. It’s impossible to always be happy, but when you’re feeling down, it’s important that you try to cheer yourself up.


“It’s normal to feel the blues. As emotional beings, we respond to life changes and adjustments and cannot always be happy. But as normal as it can be, it’s important to monitor our feelings through journaling or mindfulness activities to be able to track how often and how much the blues may be affecting us.”

Talkspace therapist Cynthia Catchings, LCSW-S

How to Beat the Blues

Although it’s OK to feel the blues from time to time, if you’re truly unhappy and the feeling isn’t getting better, you should look for ways to cope with your feelings and improve your mood. The following are some of the best ways we know to fight back when feeling the blues.  

1. Look for ways to laugh

They say laughter is the best medicine, and that adage holds when it comes to the blues. Laughter has a therapeutic effect and can increase dopamine and serotonin levels.

Whether you watch a comedy, spend time with your funniest friends, or look at silly pictures, try to find ways to bring more laughter into your life. When you’re laughing, your blue feelings can start to feel further away.

2. Spend time outside

Spending time in nature can have a positive impact on your mental health. Natural environments can be therapeutic, and research shows that being outside can lift mood and reduce stress

Being outdoors also means spending more time in the sun. Sunshine can boost serotonin levels and help you sleep more deeply at night.

3. Find ways to let your feelings out

Bottling up how you feel won’t make things better. Instead, expressing your emotions can help you work through your feelings and find ways to feel better. 

It may be helpful to share your feelings with a family member, friend, or therapist. Journaling for your mental health or finding creative activities can also be healthy outlets for your emotions. Finally, acknowledging and accepting the blues will usually help you feel better.

4. Make lifestyle changes

Studies consistently show that keeping a daily routine can positively impact your mental health. If you’ve been down, try to make healthy changes that improve your outlook on life. 

Whether you get more exercise, improve your diet, change your social circle, or improve your sleep hygiene, these small shifts can enhance your mood and well-being. People sometimes go through the blues because they’re in a rut, and healthy habits and routines might be just the change you need.

5. Take care of yourself 

It can be hard to show yourself compassion or prioritize your own needs when you’re sad. Make sure you don’t neglect yourself when you’re feeling gloomy. Try treating yourself like you’d treat a friend who’s feeling down. 

Every day, make a point of doing something you enjoy. Do things that refresh you, like taking a long, hot shower, going for a walk, meeting up with friends, or taking a mental health day off work. When you take better care of yourself, you’ll likely start to see an improvement in your mood. 

Fight the Blues with Talkspace

There are plenty of ways to cope with the blues, but if your sad feelings aren’t going away, it might be time to seek professional help. Talkspace is an online therapy platform that lets you quickly connect with a licensed therapist. If you’re looking for online therapy that accepts insurance, get connected at Talkspace to check your eligibility. 

Whether you’re feeling blue or dealing with a type of depression, sadness can make you feel unmotivated. Talkspace is a convenient way to get support for emotions you’re struggling with. Reach out for help today to beat the blues with online depression treatment and learn how to be happy again.

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Why Am I So Sad All the Time For No Reason? https://www.talkspace.com/blog/why-am-i-so-sad/ Thu, 02 Feb 2023 17:34:55 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=29518 Updated 3/20/24 Everyone feels sadness from time to time. You can feel sad for many reasons, like receiving…

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Everyone feels sadness from time to time. You can feel sad for many reasons, like receiving bad news, fighting with a friend or significant other, or just having a stressful day at work. Although sadness is a normal and common (and believe it or not, healthy) emotion, it’s not something you should constantly feel.

Persistent sadness can be overwhelming, especially when you don’t know why you’re unhappy. You might be wondering why you always feel sad or are sad for no reason. Most often, sadness is temporary, so if you’re feeling sad all the time, it could be a cause for concern. Keep reading to learn more about why you might be feeling sad all the time. 

“There are usually reasons we feel sad, but these are sometimes conscious reasons like changes in the season or feeling overwhelmed from work, family schedules, or finances. Sometimes when we’re feeling stressed or overwhelmed but we don’t address it, it can feel like sadness.”

Talkspace therapist Reshawna Chapple, PHD, LCSW

Symptoms of Sadness

Much like happiness, sadness is a vast spectrum. It can range from a sad feeling of mild disappointment to deep grief and unhappiness. People react to these feelings in many ways, and sadness can trigger both emotional and physical symptoms.

Emotional symptoms

  • Low mood
  • Feeling discouraged or disappointed 
  • Intense emotional reactions to upsetting events
  • Feeling hopeless or unmotivated

Physical symptoms

  • Loss of appetite
  • Overeating 
  • Feeling tired or drained
  • Crying

4 Potential Causes of Sadness without Reason

Wondering why you always feel so sad? Persistent sadness often stems from everyday stressors such as workplace pressures, relationship conflicts, financial worries, and significant life transitions. These factors can create a cumulative emotional burden, leading to a continual sense of sadness and emotional turmoil.

“The changes in the seasons, feeling stressed or overwhelmed, feeling jealous or left out, being tired or hungry…any type of emotional change can come across as sadness.”

Talkspace therapist Reshawna Chapple, PHD, LCSW

However, when sadness becomes a constant feeling without a clear cause, it’s crucial to look beyond these immediate triggers. Persistent sadness can be a sign that deeper, less obvious factors are at play, influencing your negative mood. The following may explain why you feel sad for no reason.

Hormonal changes

Hormones coordinate many functions in the body and can significantly impact our mood. Even minor shifts in hormone levels can affect your emotional state. For example, adolescents often experience intense mood swings during puberty, and reproductive hormones like testosterone and estrogen continue to influence emotions as we get older. 

During menstruation, estrogen and progesterone levels increase. These hormonal shifts can change serotonin levels in the brain. Pay attention if you’re wondering: why am I so sad? your hormones may be a factor in your persistent sadness.

Seasonal affective disorder

If you feel sad at specific times of the year, you might have a condition known as seasonal affective disorder (SAD). SAD is a mental health condition that’s triggered by changing seasons. SAD symptoms usually begin in the fall and continue through the winter, which is why it’s sometimes referred to as winter depression. 

While we don’t fully understand the condition, experts believe that SAD is caused by changing levels of sunlight. When we spend time in the sun, our bodies produce serotonin. As sunlight exposure decreases, our serotonin levels can drop, which can lead to feelings of extreme sadness or seasonal depression.

Chronic stress

Sometimes, if you’re asking why you feel sad for no reason, it might be because you weren’t expecting certain events to trigger emotions like sadness. We all respond to stress in different ways. Chronic stress can make some people feel nervous, irritable, or angry and leave others sad. 

In fact, sadness is frequently triggered by chronic stress. Just like sadness, though, stress is a normal part of life. That said, it can be harmful to your emotional state if you don’t have healthy tools or treatment options to cope with it.

Depression

If your sadness never seems to go away, you might actually be depressed. Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions that can leave you with a low mood or persistent sadness. 

It’s important to remember that there are different types of depression, and not everyone experiences it similarly. Severe depression can cause significant impairment, but mild depression doesn’t always interfere with daily life and functioning. If you suspect your sadness may be something more, like depression, you should talk to a mental health professional to check for a depression diagnosis.

Knowing When It’s Time to Get Help

Sad feelings aren’t necessarily a cause for concern. On the contrary, sadness is a normal and healthy reaction to painful or traumatic events. Studies even show that feeling sad can make us more sensitive to other people’s feelings. 

However, if you’re constantly unhappy, you may want to talk to a mental health professional. It’s OK to be sad, but if your negative feelings interfere with your day-to-day life, they might signify a deeper problem that could be better addressed by starting therapy. Through therapy, you can learn how to deal with sadness before it becomes a medical condition. 

For additional strategies on navigating these symptoms, consider also reading our guide on how to deal with depression.

Identifying sadness vs depression

Feeling blue doesn’t automatically mean you’re depressed, but sadness can be a symptom of depression. Usually, sadness is a response to something hurtful, discouraging, or upsetting. While it can feel overwhelming, it’s a normal emotion, and these negative feelings usually fade over time. 

“It’s OK to feel sad on occasion. Allow yourself to rest and process potential reasons for your sadness. The main difference, though, between sadness and depression is often linked to the need to seek out professional care.”

Talkspace therapist Reshawna Chapple, PHD, LCSW

Unlike sadness, depression isn’t an emotion. It’s a mental health condition that can influence how you feel, think, and behave. While a challenging event or experience can trigger depression, it’s also common to exhibit depressive symptoms without an obvious reason. Many people with depression feel gloomy or unhappy but don’t understand why. 

How can you tell the difference between sadness and depression? Sadness is only one symptom of depression. 

“You may want to ask yourself if you are: hungry, angry/anxious, lonely, or tired (HALT). Using HALT can help potentially eliminate biological causes of sadness. However, if these feelings of sadness don’t dissipate, they continue longer than a week, they persistently come back with little or no breaks in between, or you find them to affect your normal activities of daily living, this is a clear indication that you should seek the help of a professional or at the very least speak to someone about your feelings.”

Talkspace therapist Reshawna Chapple, PHD, LCSW

If you have depression, your sadness will typically occur alongside other symptoms of depression, such as:

  • Anger or irritability 
  • Loss of interest in activities you usually enjoy
  • Thinking, speaking, or moving more slowly than usually
  • Insomnia or excessive sleep
  • Difficulty with memory or focusing on tasks  
  • Fatigue
  • Feelings of guilt or worthlessness
  • Digestive issues 
  • Aches and pains 
  • Restlessness
  • Suicidal thoughts

Get Professional Help for Sadness & Depression with Talkspace

If you’re constantly unhappy or feel sad for no reason, you may be dealing with some type of depression or another mental health condition. Talking to a professional through in-person or online depression treatment can help you understand your feelings. 

Sadness can be challenging to cope with, especially when it doesn’t go away. Talkspace’s online therapy platform can connect you with a therapist so you can address your sadness or depressive symptoms. Whether you have clinical depression or are experiencing sad feelings for other reasons, Talkspace can help. 

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How to Cope with Sadness https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-sadness/ Tue, 20 Sep 2022 17:46:04 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=27463 Sadness is a normal part of life, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t difficult to cope with feelings…

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Sadness is a normal part of life, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t difficult to cope with feelings of sorrow and unhappiness you may be experiencing. Whether you’re struggling with disappointment or you’re feeling deep anguish, know that you’re not alone. Most importantly, know that the pain you’re feeling right now most likely won’t last forever. 

Understanding how to deal with sadness will allow you to process your emotions in a healthy way. Learn more about dealing with sadness in a healthy way here, as we discuss both the causes and how to cope. 

Identify the Root of Your Sadness

Everyone feels sad at times, but we don’t always experience sadness for the same reasons. Sadness has many potential causes, and two people could react to the same event differently. 

“Sadness doesn’t usually feel good, but it is a very normal emotion, often felt after loss, during a period of pain or transition, or when challenging hardships are on the forefront. It can be a very healthy and normative emotion that’s typically temporary. Certainly, feeling sadness can hurt, but suppressing our emotions can often backfire in an unhealthy way. Acceptance and expression often go hand in hand in terms of navigating an emotional time; getting support or connecting with a clinician can help you identify causes and offer a plan to move through it.”

Talkspace therapist Elizabeth Keohan, LCSW-C, LICSW, LCSW

If you’re dealing with sadness, your feelings could be caused by several things. 

1. Relationship issues

Our relationships with family members, friends, coworkers, and romantic partners can trigger a spectrum of emotions. You might feel sad that a person you care about did something hurtful, you miss what a relationship used to be, or because a relationship ended. In some cases, sadness may be accompanied by feelings of loneliness. 

2. Personal loss

Any sort of loss can result in sadness — whether you’ve lost a valued possession, missed out on a job opportunity, are navigating a divorce, have moved to a new area and left your support system, or are grieving a loved one. 

It’s not unusual to experience grief after any type of loss. This is especially true when the loss is caused by death. In addition to sadness, when grieving a death, you might also struggle with feelings of guilt or anger.

3. Unhealthy thought patterns 

Self-criticism, overgeneralization, obsessive thoughts, excessive jealousy, and other unhealthy thought patterns can influence how you respond to your life experiences. When you’re prone to negative thinking, you’re more likely to see events through a negative lens, which can lead to sadness. 

4. Depression 

Feeling sad doesn’t always mean that you’re depressed, but sadness is one of the core symptoms of clinical depression. When you’re depressed, you can feel like you’re sad for no reason. Depression is generally accompanied by other symptoms, including fatigue, loss of appetite, and irritability. Luckily, when it comes to how to treat depression, there are a variety of treatment options, so don’t suffer in silence if you suspect you might be depressed. Reach out to a mental health professional to learn how to manage depression symptoms

5. Stress

While people often feel anxious or angry when they’re stressed, stress can also cause sadness, especially if you’re experiencing what’s known as chronic stress — that is, prolonged, constant, and unrelenting stress with no relief. Over time, stress can lead to burnout and can even cause major depressive disorder (MDD). 

Regardless of what the cause of your sadness is, there are ways you can deal with it. What works for you may differ from what works for someone else, so don’t be discouraged if you must try multiple coping strategies before finding the one that helps you the most. Below are eight effective ways to deal with sadness. 

How to Deal with Sadness: 8 Ways

While it’s a common emotion at times, feelings of sadness may begin to feel overwhelming. There are countless ways of coping with sadness, but not all of them are healthy. Sometimes it can be tempting to self-medicate or use other self-destructive tactics to try and mask or numb painful emotions like sadness. The truth is that unless you’re using healthy strategies, you’re never going to get to the root of your sadness, which means you probably won’t be able to truly move past it. This is why it’s so incredibly important to find healthy and constructive ways to deal with the sadness you’re feeling. 

“Coping with sadness might seem impossible at times, but a little effort towards mindful and intentional behavior can be hugely impactful. Seek out comforting and healing activities and exercises to disrupt the lethargy that often accompanies sadness. Something as simple as connecting with a friend, spending time with your pet, exercising, or working with a trusted therapist can remind you that you might need some self care and a bit of kindness during sad times.”

Talkspace therapist Elizabeth Keohan, LCSW-C, LICSW, LCSW

If you’ve been feeling down, the following coping skills can help lift your mood and process your feelings.

1. Let yourself feel sad

You might be tempted to bottle up and ignore your feelings, but doing so will only make you feel worse in the long run. Instead of pushing your feelings aside, acknowledge your difficult emotions and accept that you’re feeling down. Does crying relieve stress and sadness? Absolutely. Don’t be afraid to have a good cry if you need to. 

2. Practice self-care

It can be hard to take care of yourself when you’re unhappy. Unfortunately, if you neglect basic needs, like the need for sleep and a healthy diet, you might wind up feeling even worse. 

Self-care is an important part of learning to acknowledge and validate your emotions. Further, research shows that little things, like the foods you eat, directly impact your emotions. So if you’re feeling down in the dumps, a nutrient-rich meal could lift your mood and give you energy (something you may be struggling with if you’ve been feeling sad lately).

3. Avoid unhealthy coping mechanisms 

Junk food, shopping sprees, and alcohol might make you better in the short term, but these kinds of destructive behaviors will only temporarily numb your pain. Work to become more aware of unhealthy coping mechanisms and seek out healthy coping skills instead. 

4. Reach out to loved ones for support

A big part of knowing how to cope with sadness is learning when to ask for help — which can be surprisingly difficult at times, especially if you’re feeling blue. Friends and family can provide you with love and support when you’re having a tough time. Whether you visit someone in person, send a text, or make a phone call, talking to others can keep your sad feelings from becoming too much to manage.

5. Spend time with your pet 

While your connections with others can give you strength when you’re going through a difficult time, you don’t necessarily have to spend time with another person

Playing with your pet or going for a walk together can also help cheer you up. If you don’t have a pet of your own, consider volunteering at an animal shelter. Studies show that animals improve symptoms of depression, and volunteering is another proven way to improve mood and counter feelings of loneliness, depression, and anxiety. 

6. Find a healthy outlet for your feelings

It’s always important to express your feelings, whether they’re positive or negative. Working on an art project, journaling for mental health, or any other creative outlet you can think of that you enjoy can help you process sad emotions and make sense of how you’re feeling. 

7. Look for ways to laugh

If you’ve been feeling out of sorts, laughter might be the last thing on your mind, but that saying is true: laughter really is the best medicine

Research proves that laughing consistently is associated with a positive psychological effect. It isn’t always easy to laugh when you’re sad, but if you can find a way – even to just smile – your mood might start to improve. Watch a comedy you love, hang out with a funny friend, or listen to a standup comedian. Once you start laughing, you’ll almost always feel a bit of relief.

8. Connect with nature

When you’re unhappy, it can be challenging to find the motivation to do the things you once enjoyed. If you don’t feel up to your usual hobbies, step outside and spend some time in nature. Not only can spending time outside help you relax, but it also has health benefits and can instantly elevate your mood.

Knowing When It’s Time to Get Help

There are plenty of ways of dealing with sadness when you’re in a low mood, but if you’re struggling and feel like you can’t cope on your own any longer, it might be time to seek professional help. If you’ve been feeling sad for several weeks, and your mood doesn’t seem to be improving, your sadness may be a symptom of depression. 

Need help figuring out if it’s sadness or depression? With the help of a therapist, you’ll be able to figure out if the negative emotions you’re feeling are more than just being sad. It might be depression, and with help, you’ll be able to learn how to deal with depression-related sadness healthily. While you might be feeling miserable or hopeless, it really is possible for you to get better and start enjoying life again.

Get Professional Help with Talkspace

Have you been having a hard time coping with sadness? Are you looking for help but not sure where to turn? Talkspace’s online therapy platform can help. 

You might feel like your sadness will never go away, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel. The negative feelings you’re experiencing aren’t just something you need to learn to live with. Whether you need treatment that includes therapy or medication for depression (or both), or you’re just looking for some better coping strategies to overcome sadness, Talkspace can provide you with guidance and support. 

Let Talkspace show you how to deal with sadness so you can begin to heal, starting today. 

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How to Be Happy Again: 14 Tips https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-be-happy-again/ Tue, 26 Apr 2022 16:01:45 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=26049 Updated 03/21/24 Depression, life changes, or a multitude of other life stressors can often leave us feeling blue…

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Depression, life changes, or a multitude of other life stressors can often leave us feeling blue and unhappy. Life is full of ups and downs, and the ebbs and flows don’t come and go without our emotions attaching to them. The thing is, feelings are just temporary. If you’re experiencing tough times right now and feeling sad or depressed, know that it’s possible to feel happy again.

Rediscovering happiness can sometimes feel like a daunting journey, especially during life’s lows. However, happiness is a state that can be cultivated with mindful practices and positive lifestyle changes. 

Whether you’re navigating through tough times or simply looking to inject more joy into your daily life, our comprehensive guide offers actionable steps to help you feel happier, more in control, and capable of embracing life’s ups and downs with a resilient spirit. Read on to learn how to be happy again. We’ll share tips for finding happiness and cutting out things that make you unhappy in your life.

14 Tips for Finding Happiness Again

Embarking on a journey towards overall happiness requires patience and self-care. These practical tips address mental health, hobbies, and daily habits to guide you toward a more joyful life and help you find happiness again.

1. Consider therapy

Therapy is a powerful tool in the quest for happiness, especially for those grappling with the shadows of trauma, loss, or grief. It serves as a beacon of hope, guiding you through the fog of difficult emotions to find clarity and peace once again. Engaging with a therapist can empower you to transform pain into growth, teaching you strategies to process your feelings constructively and move forward with resilience and optimism.

For individuals battling the grip of depression, therapy offers a lifeline. Therapy for depression provides a personalized roadmap to navigate out of the darkness, harnessing evidence-based techniques such as cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) or dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) to rekindle joy and hope. 

Embracing therapy is an act of courage and self-love. It’s a step towards not just healing, but thriving, enabling you to unlock a happier, more fulfilled version of yourself.

2. Start or return to a hobby

Finding a hobby and doing what you love is a great way to detach from the stressors in life that are stealing your joy. If you love gardening, painting, music, dancing, knitting, hiking, reading, writing, cooking, or anything else that gives you peace and energizes you, make a dedicated effort to find time for it. Even an hour a week spent doing something you love can lift your spirits and offer you hope.

3. Ditch (or time limit) your social media intake

Recent research shows a link between social media use and depression, especially when people scroll social platforms late at night. Further, studies show that people who limit their time on social media are happier and more content with their life. If you find yourself doom scrolling throughout the day or up late at night checking social media, consider ditching social altogether or at least putting time limits on your use.

4. Journal

Journaling has long been a well-respected way to improve life satisfaction, focus on the positives, and heal from past trauma. Research shows the effects of keeping a gratitude journal can result in positive emotions and an ability to adjust to life changes.

5. Meditate

The power of meditation has been proven time and again in study after study. Mindfulness meditation is an effective way to let go of stress and anxiety. Downloading a simple app can help you learn the art of meditation. Try to commit to meditating as often as you can — early morning sessions or just before going to bed at night are both great opportunities to hone your meditation skills and reap all the benefits this quiet time has to offer. 

6. Spend time with happy people

If we are the company we keep, spending time with happy people can help us maintain a positive attitude and pull us out of a funk. Distance yourself from people whose negativity brings you down. Instead, make an effort to spend time with people who share your same values and are focused on seeing the positives in life.

7. Say goodbye to unhealthy people in your life

If you’re spending time with the happy people in your life, it’s OK to take a break from those who are unhealthy. Setting boundaries and protecting yourself from toxic relationships is one of the most effective ways to be happy again.

8. Do what you love

Doing what you love is good for the soul. This could be in terms of a hobby, your profession, your extracurricular activities, or anything else that you get joy out of. Take the time to make these things a priority.

9. Eat healthy

Eating healthy doesn’t mean depriving yourself of everything you love all the time. Special treats, in moderation, are fine. Try to eat a nutritious, healthy diet the majority of your days, though, so you can fuel your body and mind. A healthy diet will ultimately help you in the happiness department.

10. Take a “Me-Day” (often)

Self-care is an important component to your lasting happiness. If you’re struggling with how to be happy again, make sure you’re taking time for yourself. It doesn’t need to be overly time-consuming, either. A 30-minute walk outdoors, getting your nails done, or going to coffee with a friend for an hour out of the week can give you the me-time you need to achieve balance and true happiness in your life.

11. Work out

Working out increases endorphins, which is a significant contributor to happiness. Research shows that the endorphin hormone released during regular exercise functions as a neurotransmitter, transmitting happiness, confidence, and well-being.

12. Make sleep a priority

The relationship between sleep and mood has been well-researched. Studies show that sleep quality has a direct correlation to life satisfaction and happiness. Making a good sleep schedule a priority can increase your life satisfaction and greatly enhance how happy you are.

13. Volunteer

The positive effects of altruism include a well-rounded sense of self, physical health benefits, and, you guessed it…happiness. Doing something kind or good for others can offer the type of intrinsic happiness that you might be searching for.

14. Join a support group

Sometimes getting together in a group to discuss challenges or struggles we face in life can be an excellent way to build our way back to happier times. The camaraderie found in sharing with others who understand your experience, which is common in a support group setting, can be hugely beneficial.

“Finding happiness again should incorporate something from each category. For our mind, it’s mindfulness, the power of prayer, or breathing that helps us recenter. For our bodies, what do we enjoy eating that fuels us? Is there something physical that we enjoy? With our relationships, is there a favorite group or team that makes us feel alive? What about our careers/school? Is there passion there?”

Talkspace therapist Meaghan Rice, PsyD, LPC

Find What Brings You Joy vs. What Makes You Unhappy

Sometimes figuring out what makes us happy requires us to figure out what’s causing us unhappiness in our life first. It might be a relationship, a job, a living situation, or anything else in your life that’s causing you stress, pain, anxiety, or general unhappiness. Figuring out what has changed or what is contributing to your unhappiness is key in deciding how to move forward toward achieving a happy life.

A simple side-by-side comparison list can be a really effective way to determine what things in your life you might want to try cutting out or make changes to, versus where you can focus your energy and time to achieve that peaceful life you’re longing for.

For example, you might be having relationship problems, a friendship that’s stressing you out, or even feelings about yourself that add to your unhappiness. Try literally listing out both sides of the coin to gain some perspective and focus your efforts.

Things that might make you happy:

  • Working out
  • Eating healthy
  • Meditating
  • Doing yoga
  • Journaling
  • Having a positive support system
  • Taking self-care seriously
  • Being optimistic
  • Saying positive affirmations and mantras in the morning
  • Staying off social media
  • Getting outdoors
  • Being creative
  • Trying new things and activities

Things that might make you unhappy:

  • Not being motivated
  • Being overly pessimistic
  • Isolating yourself
  • Comparing yourself to other people in your life
  • Shaming yourself
  • Not taking time for yourself
  • Not taking care of yourself physically
  • Avoiding healthcare or medical appointments
  • Negative thought patterns 
  • Doubting yourself
  • Spending too much time on social media

“Finding out what brings us joy is just as important as avoiding the items that make us unhappy, but we have to explore both sides in order to know these answers. Sometimes making a list of each and then finding a means of evaluating the significance of each one is the best way to start.”

Talkspace therapist Meaghan Rice, PsyD, LPC

Happiness is On the Horizon

The thing to remember about feeling unhappy is it’s temporary. All emotions, at their core, are just temporary. You can heal from sadness, depression, or any tough times you experience in your life. It might not be an easy task, and you’ll have to put in the work to get there, but you can find true happiness again.

The two biggest things you need to do are: believe in yourself and commit to doing the work. Once you do those, you’ll be on the road to leading a happier life.

If you’re struggling, or if you need help finding your way, reach out for help. A therapist can guide you in ways to rediscover the lasting happiness that you might not have considered on your own.

“It’s most helpful to have a professional explore the pros and cons with us. Sometimes impartial contributions can let us see an angle we haven’t otherwise considered. People find happiness in different ways, so what works for a friend or family member will not necessarily work for everyone.”

Talkspace therapist Meaghan Rice, PsyD, LPC

Talkspace offers online therapy that’s different from any other experience you might have had in terms of mental health and healing. Our accredited, highly skilled therapists understand how to offer the help you need. Talkspace can help you get to a place where you’re living your best, happiest life, once again.

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How to Overcome Post-Vacation Depression https://www.talkspace.com/blog/deal-with-post-vacation-depression/ Mon, 28 Feb 2022 19:32:59 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=25505 Updated on 9/12/2022 What is Post-Vacation Depression? We have all probably experienced the dread and anxiety that accompanies…

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Updated on 9/12/2022

What is Post-Vacation Depression?

We have all probably experienced the dread and anxiety that accompanies a return to “real life”  after a great vacation doing something that really fuels our souls. Going on vacation or taking a break from work can be a great escape from your everyday routine, so it’s common to have those sad, unmotivated, or anxious feelings when you go back to work, school, or your normal responsibilities. This is commonly known as post-vacation blues or post-vacation depression. For many of us, the extreme transition can be difficult and we often find ourselves stuck with future angst rather than reflecting on positive memories or enjoying the here and now. 

Unfortunately, many people believe that post-holiday blues are uncontrollable or to be expected. The good news is that with some healthy coping skills these feelings can be managed and we can get ourselves to a more optimistic viewpoint. First, it’s important to know what symptoms of post-vacation depression can look like, so you can better recognize when those coping skills are needed. 
Read on to learn more about post-vacation depression and how you can overcome it.

Signs of Post-Vacation Depression

There’s more to depression than extreme sadness, and some depression symptoms might not be that obvious. With post-vacation depression, the symptoms can often be attributed to simply a lack of motivation. However, there are other depressive symptoms that you might not be aware of. Here are a few of them:

  • Irritability
  • Too much or too little sleep
  • Eating too much or too little
  • Isolation
  • Lack of energy 
  • Fatigue (even after returning from vacation)
  • Anxiety
  • Lack of focus
  • Mild insomnia

How to Prevent & Overcome Post-Vacation Depression

We have all probably experienced the dread and anxiety that accompanies a return to “real life”  after a wonderful vacation doing something that really fuels our souls. For many of us, the extreme transition can be difficult and we often find ourselves stuck with future angst rather than reflecting on positive memories or enjoying the here and now. 

Unfortunately, many people believe that post-vacation stress and depression are uncontrollable or to be expected. The good news is that with some healthy coping skills these feelings can be managed and we can get ourselves to a more optimistic viewpoint. First, it’s important to know what depression or depressive symptoms can look like, so you can better recognize when those coping skills are needed. 

What Can Depression Look Like?

  • Irritability
  • Too much or too little sleep
  • Eating too much or too little
  • Isolation
  • Lack of energy 

We Can Regain Control, Which Decreases Symptoms of Depression

Regaining control can be achieved in a variety of different ways, but we have to work hard to center our efforts around our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors rather than other people, places, or things. We don’t have much power over external items (triggers and stressors around us), but shifting our energy to an internal focus gives us the highest chance for success. 

Examples of external focus:

  • Trying too hard to get other people out of their own depressive symptoms (focusing more on other people’s symptoms rather than our own, to our detriment)
  • Blaming work for being the reason behind our post-vacation depression
  • Allowing other people to contribute to our post-vacation depression
  • Comparing ourselves to others and feeling even more defeated
  • Letting the world determine our value rather than us feeling more in control

Ways to shift over to an internal focus:

  • Challenging thoughts that get us “stuck”— instead, consider what is within our power to change and what is out of our control
  • Allowing ourselves time to work through gut reactions
  • Making decisions with an objective viewpoint – look for facts rather than focusing on assumptions
  • Planning ahead to prepare for triggers
  • Building our internal locus of control by learning from challenging moments, applying the knowledge going forward, and rewarding ourselves when we succeed

Habits that Help Alleviate Post-Vacation Depression

Habits are much harder to create than they are to keep. Creating new habits is challenging because these new habits have to resonate for them to gain momentum and can quickly fall flat if they are not met with positive reinforcement. That’s why it’s so important to dabble with a few different habits to see what works for us.

These tips from our therapists about post-vacation habits can help you keep post-vacation depression at bay. 

Helpful tips from our therapists:

  • Take an extra day off work, or come back a day early to start readjusting into your usual everyday life. This is a great time to tackle tasks like unpacking, cleaning, and grocery shopping which will help you feel more prepared for the week ahead
  • If possible, block an hour of your first day back to work on your calendar. Use this time at the start of your day to catch up on emails and to focus on your top priorities for the day or week ahead
  • Before leaving for vacation try to tidy up and cross some of your normal chores off your list— it will be worth it to avoid coming back to a mess 
  • Set out your work clothes before you unpack so they don’t get mixed up in the clothing explosion that tends to take over your closet post-vacation
  • Defer unpacking until you have time to put everything away properly
  • Pack your lunch and work bag the night before so that you can just grab and go in the morning — you may feel more tired than usual the day after a trip
  • Go to bed early or as soon as possible if returning late at night

Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD, C-DBT (She/Her/Hers)

  • Develop a personal mantra, “I’m smart, talented, physically appealing, and motivated”
  • Put some community-oriented plans on the calendar (giving you something to look forward to)
  • Reach out and ask a friend about their end of vacation scaries and how they managed 
  • Create a routine that incorporates some mindfulness (early in the morning or late in the evening)
  • Allow yourself space to grieve the loss of a relaxing vacation coming to an end 
  • Remind yourself that time and space is fluid, peace and chaos go hand in hand
  • Reflect on your life in weekly, monthly, and even yearly increments to make sure you are headed to the best versions of yourself
  • Reevaluate your work and/or school to ensure you are pursuing your passion
  • Find role models that have healthy ways of dealing with post-vacation depression

Meaghan Rice, PsyD, LPC (She/Her/Hers)

Since there are so many people that struggle adjusting after a vacation you can rest easy knowing you’re not alone and there are ways to manage feelings of depression and anxiety. That said, not all coping mechanisms are created equal. Focus on avoiding behaviors that only temporarily alleviate depression, since they can lead to an escalation of symptoms down the line. Instead, focus on creating functional habits that can be positively reinforced and maintained.

Regaining Control of Your Symptoms

Most importantly, know that you can always access a professional if you are finding yourself paralyzed by negative coping mechanisms or if you are struggling to find ways to positively and successfully manage your post-vacation depression.

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The good news is that getting access to professional therapy while traveling has never been easier as a result of a new Talkspace partnership with Kimpton Hotels & Restaurants. Beginning this February 2022, Kimpton will be rolling out mental health services to 4,000+ employees across the country and offering a discount on the first month of a Talkspace plan to all of its guests. 

Kimpton will also be providing 1,000 free therapy sessions to guests — to be redeemed on a first come basis. The Kimpton x Talkspace partnership is the first of its kind to bring meaningful and accessible mental health support to hospitality employees, who have been front line workers throughout the pandemic, as well as to travelers managing everyday stresses on the road.

For more information about the Kimpton x Talkspace partnership, please visit kimptonhotels.com/talkspace, and follow along on social @kimpton and @talkspace for more.

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17 Therapist-Approved Tips for Dealing With Seasonal Depression https://www.talkspace.com/blog/how-to-deal-with-seasonal-depression/ Wed, 02 Feb 2022 16:55:28 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=25097 Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is brought on by the changing seasons. It can be an overwhelming, jarring type…

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Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is brought on by the changing seasons. It can be an overwhelming, jarring type of depression. Most people, when first dealing with it, aren’t sure how to cope with seasonal depression. They begin feeling sapped of energy and interest during the fall, and their condition continues to worsen as winter progresses. The depressive symptoms typically self-resolve during the springtime and remain minimal throughout the summer months. It is also important to remember that winter depression or winter blues is a lesser form of SAD. 

Researchers are not yet sure what exactly causes seasonal affective disorder, but some of its prevalent markers include:

  • Daily depression that occurs in a seasonal pattern
  • Lacking interest in previously enjoyed activities
  • Weight gain & changes in appetite
  • Lacking energy & feeling constantly tired
  • Excessive sleeping

Left untreated, seasonal affective disorder symptoms can lead to chronic mental health problems. Fortunately, there are a number of therapist-approved techniques for knowing how to deal with seasonal depression. Use the tips below to learn to recognize, prevent, and alleviate SAD symptoms.

Consider the following 17 tips on how to cope with seasonal depression.

1. Talk with a Therapist

If you suffer from seasonal affective disorder, working with an online therapist can be a huge asset. A skilled therapist can teach you how to fight seasonal depression before, during, and after its occurrence. Talk therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) are both effective in treating SAD, and success rates are high. There’s always hope for healing.

2. Stay Hydrated

Water is integral to every cell in the human body, so it’s vitally important to drink enough. Staying hydrated is essential year-round, and it can help you have optimal health even during the months where the weather has you down. 

3. Get Your Daily Dose of Sunshine

Understanding how to combat seasonal depression involves knowing about the power of natural sunlight. Get outside of the house regularly. When indoors, leave the window blinds open to let the sun in. If you work inside, try to find a location where natural light gets in.

4. Take the Right Vitamins

Vitamin D deficiency is linked to depression. Many people struggle with getting enough Vitamin D, particularly in the winter months. While sunshine is the best source of vitamin D, if you’re unable to get enough natural bright light during the dark winter months, consider taking an organic, plant-based vitamin D supplement. The recommended form of vitamin D is called vitamin D3, or cholecalciferol — though some studies show that vitamin D2 can work just as well. 

Studies have shown that those who took vitamin D supplements saw noticed improvements in their depression symptoms. If you are considering taking vitamin D, be sure to speak with your medical doctor before trying out a new supplement.

5. Try Light Therapy

When those dark, gray days keep you from getting that natural sunlight you crave, bright light therapy might do the trick. Sometimes called Light in a Box, light therapy boxes emit very bright artificial light that mimics natural sunshine. They can help synchronize your circadian rhythm and cause chemical changes in your brain to elevate your overall mood. Sitting in front of a lightbox daily for about 30 minutes can help reduce the effects of SAD.

6. Prepare Yourself Before the Seasons Change

If you know that you have SAD, then it’s good to prepare your mind for the upcoming seasonal change. Going into autumn, consider adding mood-heightening activities like fun hobbies, community service, group outings, outdoor walks, or exercising in a public park to your schedule.

7. Dawn Simulators

Dawn simulators are specially designed alarm clocks that wake you with gradual intensity, like a rising sun. They produce calming sounds instead of abrupt noises, allowing you to enter the day in a peaceful manner instead of being frantic. These affordable devices have been known to help some people with SAD.

8. Stay Connected with Friends

There’s a definitive link between isolation and depression. That’s why getting together with valued friends is an effective way to combat the effects of seasonal affective disorder. So consider finding some creative ways to meet up with your friends, especially during the cool autumn and cold winter months, even if it’s just an online video chat.

“There is no shame in seeking help. Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is a common condition that many of my clients have experienced. All of them have noted that once they decided to open up about it, they have been able to find treatment that works.”

Talkspace therapist Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD, CDBT

9. Aromatherapy

Aromatherapy involves burning aromatic candles or diffusing the vapor of essential oils. Research shows that lavender, ginger, and bergamot are especially effective for relieving anxiety and depression symptoms as well as some sleep problems.

10. Schedule Your Time and Activities

Many people with seasonal affective disorder have difficulty getting to sleep at night, waking up in the morning, or both. Staying on a regular sleep and active schedule can do wonders for your mood.

11. Take a Hot Epsom Salt Bath

Epsom salt is magnesium sulfate (MgSO4). Soaking in a warm bath with added Epsom salt is one way to increase your bodily intake of magnesium. According to research, magnesium can be effective in treating adults with mild-to-moderate depression.  

12. Exercise Daily

There’s massive evidence that regular exercise can effectively combat depression symptoms. Combined with all the other numerous health benefits it offers, it’s a no-brainer that working out during the cold, dark months of the year can be beneficial in helping with SAD. 

Semi-strenuous exercise, to the point of perspiration, releases endorphins, stimulates immunity, aids digestion, and offers several other physiological responses that help to prevent and alleviate depression.

13. Journaling

Many people with SAD attest to the power of journaling. They’ve learned how to combat seasonal depression by writing down their thoughts, feelings, and goals. Journaling can breathe life into your thoughts and make them concrete. 

Use your journal to prioritize your time, express your worries, create solutions, let go of resentments, and to just stay in touch with your inner feelings. Journaling to track your moods can be useful in identifying trends that may help you in the future.   

“Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) can feel really frustrating because you can feel like you’ve really got a handle on things and then, out of the blue, the depression starts to set in. I encourage my clients to track their mood and other symptoms over time to identify any trends that they can bring up with their provider.”

Talkspace therapist Ashley Ertel, LCSW, BCD, CDBT

14. Plan Your Meals

Some people with winter seasonal affective disorder experience tiredness, excessive sleeping, changes in appetite, and overeating (especially high-carb foods). Take some time to plan healthy meals and prepare them at home. If you have any concerns about your changes in appetite, speak with your therapist about what is going on so you address this. 

15. Take a Vacation

If you’re prone to depression in the winter months, consider a vacation. If you can swing it, get to a sunny place. A bright environment, lots of natural sunlight, and change of scenery can be very effective at chasing away the winter blues and restoring your energy.

16. Avoid Alcohol

While many people assert that it helps lift them out of depression, alcohol is classified as a depressant. It may initially cause feelings of elation and positivity, but excessive consumption can further feelings of depression, anger, or hopelessness. Drink carefully, if at all.

17. Consider Medication  

SAD is a type of depression — it’s a mental health condition. This means it must be diagnosed by a licensed mental health professional, and you might want to consider medication to help with your treatment. Ask your family doctor about getting screened for SAD. They can either diagnose you or refer you to an online psychiatrist.

Antidepressant medications may work to combat SAD. However, many people opt to rule out other possible remedies before taking any prescription medication. Prescription drugs can be helpful for many conditions and shouldn’t necessarily be ruled out immediately. Some people, however, try certain forms of therapy and other treatment options first. Your doctor can help you determine if medication is right for you.

You don’t have to suffer in silence if you deal with seasonal affective disorder. You can learn how to deal with seasonal depression. There are so many effective, helpful, easy tips you can use to learn to alleviate the depression and loneliness you might experience over the winter months. 

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Too Depressed to Get Out of Bed? 11 Encouraging Tips https://www.talkspace.com/blog/cant-get-out-of-bed-depression/ Thu, 06 Jan 2022 20:50:54 +0000 https://www.talkspace.com/blog/?p=24801 It’s normal to occasionally feel overwhelmed, stressed, and down. Everyone feels blue and in a low mood to…

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It’s normal to occasionally feel overwhelmed, stressed, and down. Everyone feels blue and in a low mood to some extent at some point in their life. What’s not normal, however, is experiencing what feels like can’t get out of bed depression for a long period of time. This is a mental health problem that can affect your ability to take on the day. If you’re in that place right now and experiencing this type of depression, we’ve got some tips to help. 

Depression can make the most basic, everyday tasks feel virtually impossible. If your morning depression is making everything from showering regularly to getting dressed in the mornings more difficult, you should know: you don’t have to be depressed in bed today

Read on to learn more about how to get out of bed when depressed and miserable. These tips can be helpful in moving ahead and trying to manage your depression.

1. Light Therapy

Research shows that light actually can help improve our mood. Light therapy has proven effective in treating depression symptoms, which is known to affect circadian rhythms and sleep cycles. 

“Light therapy is an incredibly effective tool for individuals struggling with depression. The amount of comfort and energy sunlight affords us is huge. Light exposure boxes are great in allowing this to occur but nothing beats the power of the sun.”

Talkspace therapist Minkyung Chung, MS, LMHC

You don’t even need a light box or any fancy, expensive equipment to see the positive effects light can have in helping you get out of bed every day. Even just opening the blinds to let natural light in might be just what you need to help you get up and out of bed today.

2. Establish A Morning Routine You Enjoy

From our sleep habits to work life, we naturally thrive on schedules. If you’re constantly feeling like you must drag yourself out of bed every day, that mental mindset might be contributing to why it’s so hard to get up in the first place. These negative thoughts can hold you back immensely and, in some cases, make your depressive symptoms worse.

Instead of focusing on those negative thoughts, which can ultimately lead to a stressed and rushed morning where you’re constantly feeling behind, try creating a routine that you can find joy in.

Whether it’s meditating in the morning, doing a quick 10-minute stretch, making a fun breakfast, getting outside for a walk, or even getting a full 30-to-60 minute cardio workout in, giving yourself something you enjoy to look forward to might make it easier for you to begin your day. 

3. Find A Reason to Get Out of Bed

If routines you enjoy can help motivate you, finding a fun or exciting reason to get out of bed in the morning might help even more. Maybe it’s a special breakfast or treating yourself to a fancy cup of coffee on the way into the office. 

Giving yourself a reason to get up is always a good motivator. Positive reinforcement can be a great influencer and help you break the hold that I can’t get out of bed depression has on you. 

4. Start Your Day with Baby Steps

If just the thought of swinging your legs over the edge of the bed feels overwhelming, keep in mind that you don’t have to take on the whole world at once. Take baby steps. 

Be kind to yourself and have a plan with small, attainable, achievable tasks that are easy for you to take on, one at a time. Think in terms of 1-foot-in-front-of-the-other. This can be a great mindset if you’re trying to overcome feeling depressed in bed.

Start with something as small as getting a glass of water. Know that you’ll have a light breakfast just after that. Then move on to brushing your hair and teeth. Getting dressed might be after that. Keep moving forward with these small, isolated tasks, one after the other, until your morning routine is complete and you’re ready to take on your day.

“Even the smallest of acts can be a massive struggle but trying to do something you would already do is starting the day. It may not be precisely in the morning but doing something is starting down the path. Including our basic needs into the small steps counts.”

Talkspace therapist Minkyung Chung, MS, LMHC

5. Let Your Appetite Draw You Out of Bed

Our bodies have a way of telling us it’s time to move forward. If you’re hungry, or if you really enjoy that 1st cup of coffee every morning, you might be tempted enough to actually get out of bed. The idea of a tasty breakfast might just spark your appetite. You might even discover that it’s a blueberry muffin and a glass of orange juice every morning that encourages you to get out of bed despite feeling depressed.

6. Set More Than One Alarm

If the temptation to turn off your alarm and go back to sleep feels so strong that you can never get up the first time, consider setting more than one alarm, 5 to 10 minutes apart. You might need to set your first alarm earlier to allow for multiple alarms without you being late, but that can be easy to fix. 

7. Make (and Stick To) A Schedule

When you don’t have a schedule in place, you might feel like you need to make constant decisions about every little thing. Creating and sticking to a schedule can take the stress out of your mornings. 

Having set times to start and end tasks can be very helpful in reducing some of the morning dread you might be feeling. Additionally, depression is known to have a significant impact on how well you can make decisions. Having that schedule set can help eliminate some of the decisions you need to make — from what to wear, to what to eat, and more. 

8. Plan for the Occasional Day in Bed

We all have bad days from time to time. Some days can be worse than others. Plan ahead for the times you just can’t find it in yourself to jump out of bed and take on the world. 

It might be something as simple as throwing on some comfy clothes, having a special treat in the freezer for breakfast, or maybe even keeping face masks, lotions, or other at-home spa treatments readily available for those extra difficult days. 

9. Reach Out for Help

Sometimes, despite your best efforts, you might just feel too depressed to get out of bed. You should know that it’s OK if this happens. Recognizing the fact that your depression is getting worse, or that you’re no longer able to manage it on your own, is a huge step. 

If you’re starting to feel like the number of days your depression is making it hard to get out of bed is increasing, it might be time for you to reach out for help.

You can talk to a friend, your partner, or even a doctor or online therapist to ask for help. You might even find that just verbalizing how you’re feeling can be empowering. At the very least, you might be surprised to learn that you’re not the only one who feels like they can’t get out of bed because of depression. Sometimes knowing that you’re not alone in how you feel, and that others are experiencing something similar, can be helpful.

10. Talk to A Mental Health Professional About Your Depression Treatment

Don’t let your depression go on so long that it becomes debilitating. If you’ve tried all the tips we’ve given here today and you’ve talked to a friend or loved one about how you’re feeling, you should be proud. However, if you still can’t seem to shake your depression, and being depressed in bed is becoming something that interferes with your daily life, you should consider talking to a mental health professional.

A doctor or therapist can help you come up with a new depression treatment plan or adjust your current one to help you manage depression. Make sure that you’re communicating with them so they know how severe your depression has become. They can help you better understand what type of depression you’re dealing with or if other mental health conditions are affecting your energy levels. 

It might be something as simple as adjusting the dosage or type of medication for depression you’re on, or it could also be a matter of finding the right combination of therapy and medication.

11. Let Yourself Have a Mental Health Day & Stay In Bed

Remember that you don’t always have to be 100% on point. Maybe you need that mental health day today. Maybe staying in bed and watching a movie, or reading, or catching up on emails and working from bed is exactly what your body and mind have been craving. Sometimes you just need to make self care a priority, and that’s OK. 

We often convince ourselves that persevering is the most important thing, but sometimes it’s important to acknowledge the importance of taking care of our most basic needs, like rest and relaxation. 

“Pushing ourselves constantly when struggling with depression takes its toll on us. Ensuring some sort of self care day is important. This may be the day you allow yourself to stay in bed or just stay in your PJs and lounge.”

Talkspace therapist Minkyung Chung, MS, LMHC

This essential part of self care is just as important as knowing how to get out of bed when depressed. In fact, it might be the best thing you can do, so tomorrow you can get out of bed just a little bit easier.

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